"Sticks and stones may break my bones but words will never hurt me." Remember that old nursery rhyme? Whoever wrote that was lying! Words do hurt, and are often more painful and long lasting than most physical injuries. What we say has consequences, and we would do well to not only guard our hearts, but our mouths as well.
In ministry, the most lasting wounds that I have experienced were the words that questioned my abilities or my integrity. Often those words were expressed due to misunderstanding or frustration. Every time that has happened to me, I have taken a pause and wondered what my words have done to others. As a Christian and as a pastor, my words must always be guarded. I must always be vigilant to take care not to hurt people. Even when I think someone deserved it, words can never be taken back. There is no rewind and erase button. When I speak, my goal is to encourage, build people up in the faith, and always promote the ministry of reconciliation.
Words do hurt. Gossip brings destruction. Careless speech never builds the Body of Christ. As a Christian, you would do well never to forget that!
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